Monday, December 14, 2009

Language Of Body: Signs Of Falling In Love

How can you tell that a person is already falling in love with you? A person's body language can spell out his or her true feelings and intentions for you. A person in love has that certain glow every time he or she is with that special person, but what are the other signs?

You will notice that a person is already falling for you if he can't stand being far from you, gives more smiles and laughter, mirror your actions, cannot keep his eyes off you, and have that certain glow.

Personal Space And Distance

A person in love with you would look for several ways just to be closer to you. You will know that a person's personal space has gotten smaller when he or she gets comfortable with you even in the slightest distance. And notice if in a room full of people, he will always try to stay close to you.

That person would also tend to lean his body towards you, whether when sitting down or standing up. The direction of his or her body would be always turned towards you. If not, then the direction of her eyes will show who is in her mind.

More Touch, Smiles, And Laughter

A person who is starting to fall for you would listen to you more, thus would give more reactions than he or she did during your first dates. There would be more laughter even for the cheesiest jokes. While talking, one will find in inevitable from smiling, especially during silence. This is because that person is truly enjoying his or her time with you.

He or she would also touch you from time to time. A tap on the shoulder, placing the hand on the small of the back, hugging, and holding the hands are some of the most common touching body language in falling in love.

The Mirroring Actions

This is a funny yet very sweet signal of attraction since it is done unconsciously most of the time. This is where a person would imitate the actions of that special person. For example, you will prop your chin onto your hand, the person in love with you will follow that specific action.

The Longer Stare

A person in love with you simply cannot take his eyes off you. Most especially when the feeling has just begun to develop, he or she would find difficulty in concentrating on other things. The stare is usually intimate or intense, and it is accompanied with a slight smile.

That Certain Glow

Somehow unexplainable, a person has a certain aura around him or her when he or she is in love and happy. It is due to the extreme happiness and joy coming from the inside, and this is well-reflected with a sparkle in the eyes and a smile that is hard to remove from the face.

When a person falls in love, it changes him entirely and this is reflected in his or her body language. Some people fail to notice this, but these signs are definitely there. The person himself is even unaware that he is already providing hints and clues about his true feelings for that special someone. Most people find them hard to miss, and would love these signals of deep attraction sent through the silence but delivered by simple romantic actions and gestures.

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Thursday, December 10, 2009

10 Things You Need to Know About Love

1. Love does not hurt. Physical and/or emotional abuse are not a part of love.
2. Love is not manipulative, it should not be used to get others to do what you
want. You should never give in to demands based on the, "You would do it if you
loved me!" tactic.
3. Love is an intense feeling of caring for another person. It can take many
different forms (romantic, friendly, familial) but it is always about caring.
4. Although it is true that a big part of love is putting another person's happiness
ahead of your own this never includes compromising your values or being untrue to

5. If somebody asks you to do something that you don't want to do in order
to "prove" your love they do not love you the way you might think they do. When
you love another person you don't ask them to sacrifice a part of themselves in
the name of that love.
6. It is very easy to confuse lust for love. The true measure of romantic love is
commitment and trust not physical attraction.
7. It is possible to feel romantic love for more than one person at a given time.
Just think, if it is possible for you to love both of your parents at the same
time why would it be impossible to feel romantic love for two people at once?
Don't beat yourself up emotionally if you find yourself in this unhappy
situation. But be sure to remain single and be open and honest with all parties
about your feelings and confusion.
8. Sex is NOT love. Love is NOT sex. Sex can be a part of romantic love but it is
never mandatory.
9. Romantic love can (and often does) fade. When it goes there is not always a
reason. When somebody falls out of love with you it does not reflect upon your
value as a person or your desirability.
10.Love should make you feel happy, secure and appreciated.[]

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